Are you really in LOVE?

Happy Valenti…

To be loved! To be loved!! You know, our emotions have been capitalized upon. The media sells products while lads sell dreams. I promise I’m not a bitter single, hear me out.  

HISTORY LESSON: What’s the origin of Valentine’s Day?? Leave a comment on your thoughts. .

See the huge meme below… I saw this on Facebook back in October of last year.  

Photo credit: http://www.scoopnest.com/user/MantraYogaMag/615750066406428672

As a single woman, I’m sure my views will be enhanced over time but this meme explains my sentiments to the T.

When it comes to relationships (personal or intimate) I’ve always been intuitive – if my gut tells me “Nika, something isn’t right…” I tend to listen.

Yes, all things related to a relationship can seem to be a ‘healthy challenge’ as I like to call it but the way we mesh within our relationships stem from our Spirit.

Our spirits must be aligned.

That can only happen when we work on ourselves first and figure out how we fit into the environment.

 If this doesn’t happen, LOVE will be hard.

Never mind your significant other, do you LOVE YOU?

Can you laugh with yourself? Can you spend quality time with yourself? Forreal, can you go to the movies BY YOURSELF, and be okay with it? lol     

 

Over the last year I have had an awesome time getting to know the many facets of myself and it excites me to know that I’m not finished evolving.

So what do you LOVE about yourself??

One thing that LOVE about myself is that while I’m sweet and encouraging, there is also an adventurous side to me that loves a thrill. 

Have a wonderful Valentine’s Day. I’ll be treating myself to discounted chocolate & flowers by the end of next week. LOL

Be Beautiful.

Nika